as taken from peaceofpie; updated with more options!

Hello My identity is

admirer, all of the above, ally, chapstick lesbian, chick, dude, dyke, faggot, feminist, femme-ish, gaysexual, gender variant, gentlewoman, girl, grrl, homo, homoemotional, homoflexible, introvert, lesbian, manly-hearted woman, me, ms., none of the above, open, other, out, pansexual, pansy, polyamorous, polysexual, polysnuggler, queer, queer-friendly, radical, self-defined, shy, sister, tomboy, trans-friendly, transfeminist, undeclared, unspecified, versatile, whore, XX, YES!

What's yours?

more thoughts on identity

i'm very much a person who is pro-self identifying. be a man who sleeps with men every other weekend but want to claim straight-ness? whatever. be a woman who hasn't slept with a woman, ever, and has a boyfriend, and say your a lesbian? sure.

but.... that "ex-gay" identity..... i not only struggle to accept, but struggle to take seriously.

is that *so* wrong?


IF I EVER DECLARE MYSELF AN EX-GAY, HOLD ME AN INTERVENTION. PLEASE.