more thoughts on identity

[rkt]

i'm very much a person who is pro-self identifying. be a man who sleeps with men every other weekend but want to claim straight-ness? whatever. be a woman who hasn't slept with a woman, ever, and has a boyfriend, and say your a lesbian? sure.

but.... that "ex-gay" identity..... i not only struggle to accept, but struggle to take seriously.

is that *so* wrong?


IF I EVER DECLARE MYSELF AN EX-GAY, HOLD ME AN INTERVENTION. PLEASE.

Comments

[allinwonderland.livejournal.com]

sure thing...

Ah, the fun of interventions.

I had one when I "turned" gay

[rkt.livejournal.com]

i'm sorry to hear of your intervention. :/ but thanks for volunteering for mine!

[peaceofpie.livejournal.com]

I'll hold yours if you'll hold mine.

(Oh god that sounded REALLY dirty!)

[rkt.livejournal.com]

you say dirty like it's a bad thing :)

seriously though, it's a deal.

[jellykarma.livejournal.com]

Yeah even if I sleep with a guy I know I'm just a lesian in straight girls clothing.

[peaceofpie.livejournal.com]

Hehehe, true that!

Are you in NY still these days? We could hang out. :)

[rkt.livejournal.com]

i am ;) i was going to reply to your post and request low cost choral concerts that are air conditioned . . . . but just hanging out would be great, too.

(i'm running away for a long weekend next week, though.)

[rkt.livejournal.com]

sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do.

[peaceofpie.livejournal.com]

Ah totally! I'm around till the middle of June. Next time you IM me let's figure some fun out. :)