how to stop rape

a lot has been said about how to prevent rape.
women should learn self-defense. women women should lock ourselves in their houses after dark. women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.

instead of that bullshit, how about (as seen from peaceofpie) with a few minor additions, ( how to *really* stop rape (may be triggering) behind your frienly neighborhood lj-cut )

go forth and spread the message.